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D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 7 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, November 23, 2008 - 1:09 pm: |      |
He thought it was annoying. She didn't see how. He explained, and she agreed. |
Doctapeppa (Doctapeppa)
New member Username: Doctapeppa
Post Number: 1225 Registered: 12-2004
| | Posted on Sunday, November 23, 2008 - 5:21 pm: |      |
Albatrosses relevant? |
Alhucema (Alhucema)
New member Username: Alhucema
Post Number: 139 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, November 23, 2008 - 6:54 pm: |      |
Annoying for him? Her? Anyone else? The reason she did not see how: their different personal preferences? cultural differences? other? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 12 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 12:40 pm: |      |
Albatrosses relevant? No to this obligatory question. Annoying for him? This one. Her? Anyone else? The reason she did not see how: their different personal preferences? cultural differences? other? This one. |
Doctapeppa (Doctapeppa)
New member Username: Doctapeppa
Post Number: 1242 Registered: 12-2004
| | Posted on Monday, November 24, 2008 - 8:01 pm: |      |
Perceptions relevant? Age relevant? All I can't think of right now is that annoying mosquito ring tone. Some people can hear it, but others can't. For people like us who can hear it, it's extremely annoying. Gender relevant? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 20 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 12:17 am: |      |
Perceptions relevant? No. Age relevant? No. Gender relevant? Yes. |
Alhucema (Alhucema)
New member Username: Alhucema
Post Number: 150 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 12:21 am: |      |
So it was annoying for him because he was a man? And wasn't for her, as she was a woman? A swift kick in the pants? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 23 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 12:24 am: |      |
So it was annoying for him because he was a man? And wasn't for her, as she was a woman? Yes. A swift kick in the pants? But not this. Besides, I'd think being kicked would be annoying, at least, to everyone. |
Alhucema (Alhucema)
New member Username: Alhucema
Post Number: 151 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 12:26 am: |      |
Was it annoying because it could be seen? Heard? Tasted? Felt? Smelled? Otherwise perceived? |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 5 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 1:00 am: |      |
Does it have anything to do with clothing? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 26 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 1:11 am: |      |
Was it annoying because it could be seen? Heard? Tasted? Felt? Smelled? Otherwise perceived? It can, at the least, be seen and felt, but none of these are, per se, why it's annoying. Does it have anything to do with clothing? No.. |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 9 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 1:16 am: |      |
Is "he" physically male, and "she" physically female? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 29 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 1:31 am: |      |
Is "he" physically male, and "she" physically female? Shockingly, yes to both. |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 13 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 1:35 am: |      |
Does it have anything to do with sound? Music? an object that a person typically posseses? kept inside the house? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 30 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 2:02 am: |      |
Does it have anything to do with sound? No. Music? No. an object that a person typically posseses? Yesish. kept inside the house? No. |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 31 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 2:04 am: |      |
Answer to "an object that a person typically possesses" should really be: Yesish, for sufficiently vague values of "object." |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 19 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 2:07 am: |      |
something that you can go inside? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 32 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 2:24 am: |      |
something that you can go inside? No. |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 21 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 2:35 am: |      |
Is the annoyance alive? Animal? human? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 35 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 2:38 am: |      |
Is the annoyance alive? No. Animal? human? |
Erinye (Erinye)
New member Username: Erinye
Post Number: 26 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 25, 2008 - 8:48 pm: |      |
Is the "object" (for lack of a better word) something she possesses? Something he possesses? Something they observe mutually? Something he tells her about? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 54 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 - 11:25 am: |      |
Is the "object" (for lack of a better word) something she possesses? Yes. Something he possesses? Yes. Something they observe mutually? No. Something he tells her about? No. |
Alhucema (Alhucema)
New member Username: Alhucema
Post Number: 154 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 - 6:35 pm: |      |
Does the same "object" belong to both of them? If I wanted to describe the "annoyance" more closely, would he be ashamed? Embarrassed? Other? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 60 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 - 7:33 pm: |      |
Does the same "object" belong to both of them? No. If I wanted to describe the "annoyance" more closely, would he be ashamed? Embarrassed? Other? This one. |
Alhucema (Alhucema)
New member Username: Alhucema
Post Number: 159 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 26, 2008 - 9:16 pm: |      |
Is the gist of it something like that: She has an object A, he has an object B? She does something with her object A which she finds perfectly normal/neutral? He finds annoying that she does it? Or would he find annoying if he did it with his object B? Do objects A and B ever interact (such as magnets, mobile phones etc.)? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 66 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, November 27, 2008 - 6:47 pm: |      |
Is the gist of it something like that: She has an object A, he has an object B? This is true, but may not be that helpful, and could lead to FAs. She does something with her object A which she finds perfectly normal/neutral? No. He finds annoying that she does it? Or would he find annoying if he did it with his object B? Do objects A and B ever interact (such as magnets, mobile phones etc.)? No. |
Erinye (Erinye)
New member Username: Erinye
Post Number: 54 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, November 27, 2008 - 9:02 pm: |      |
Are A and B in a related category of objects? Was A purchased? B? |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 83 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Thursday, November 27, 2008 - 10:40 pm: |      |
Does it have to do with body parts specific to a person's sex? body temperature? Long hair? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 78 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 28, 2008 - 12:21 am: |      |
Are A and B in a related category of objects? Yes. Was A purchased? B? Neither. Does it have to do with body parts specific to a person's sex? Yope. body temperature? No. Long hair? Yes. |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 85 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 28, 2008 - 1:16 am: |      |
Having to make the hair look nice? Does the long hair get in the way of cuddling? Does this have anything to do with a real life experience? People's judgements on men and women with long hair? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 80 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 28, 2008 - 5:28 am: |      |
Having to make the hair look nice? No. Does the long hair get in the way of cuddling? No. Does this have anything to do with a real life experience? Yes. People's judgements on men and women with long hair? No. |
Erinye (Erinye)
New member Username: Erinye
Post Number: 55 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 28, 2008 - 6:00 am: |      |
Is the location of the body hair in question relevant for A? B? Are cultural norms regarding hair removal involved? |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 88 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 28, 2008 - 12:48 pm: |      |
Is it having a beard or stubble? mustache? |
Obvious (Obvious)
New member Username: Obvious
Post Number: 92 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 28, 2008 - 12:58 pm: |      |
shaving? |
D_gordon (D_gordon)
New member Username: D_gordon
Post Number: 81 Registered: 11-2008
| | Posted on Friday, November 28, 2008 - 4:00 pm: |      |
Is the location of the body hair in question relevant for A? B? Yes. Are cultural norms regarding hair removal involved? No. Is it having a beard or stubble? mustache? shaving? Bingo! *****SPOILER***** He mentioned that even though he liked his newly long hair, he found it annoying. She didn't understand how at first, but it made sense to her once he explained that the hair tended to get in the way of shaving. As someone who has recently grown my hair long for the first time, this is definitely based on personal experience. |